The sacredness of our God-given names

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  1. I am surprised and rather shocked by this information. I’ve never heard that the church is specifically against catechumens and candidates taking a saint name for confirmation. In fact, when I went through RCIA in 1998, I was not asked about it at all, but when I was older I was asked who my confirmation saint was. Not having one, I felt like I missed out both on valuable knowledge of the saints and particularly the intercession of that saint in my many years since RCIA. I picked St Therese to walk with me in my faith journey at that time, but I lost out on 10+ years of growing and imitating her little way, because I didn’t know about it sooner.

    Our RCIA program has not been asking students to pick saint names either because it had been overlooked. We were planning to add that this year but now I’m questioning that as apparently that is discouraged. I will check it out in the RCIA book where you referenced.

    Either way, I will still encourage our candidates and catechumens to learn about the saints and pick some to learn about and grow on their faith journey with. Thanks for the article.

    1. Hi Jenni. Thank you for commenting on the article. I hope I wasn’t saying the church is specifically against choosing a saint name for confirmation. I meant to say it is not part of our deeper tradition. Perhaps a more positive way to express the tradition is to say the church is for emphasizing the sacredness of our given names, and the church is for emphasizing the link between baptism and confirmation by celebrating both sacraments under the name we were given at birth. We can always ask a particular saint to guide us and watch over us even if we haven’t taken that saint’s name. For example, I often call upon and try to emulate John the Baptist and Our Lady of Guadalupe, even though I am not named after either of them. I think your goal to encourage your candidates and catechumens to learn about the saints and pick some to learn about and grow on their faith journey with is excellent. Thank you again for sharing.

  2. Richard Boynton

    We do not introduce the topic of baptismal or confirmation names; however if someone raises the question we explain and will honor their desire if they choose a saint whom they see as a model for their future life in the faith. I appreciate the richer explanation in this article and will incorporate these thoughts when the question arises.

  3. There has been a constant battle in our diocese against parishes, priests, and sometimes, even bishops insisting on a new name around Confirmation, both for those participating in the RCIA journey, and for those who were baptised as infants are coming to the celebration of Confirmation itself.

    I’ve always maintained that unless one was going to go to the court house and change your name legally, what was the point of taking a new name. It’s also the reason why I prefer to be addressed by my baptismal name rather than by a title – my baptismal name, given to me by my parents, is the name by which God knows me!

  4. thank you for this information. As an RCIA director I have not pushed the idea of adding a saint’s name at Confirmation much less Baptism. Having a patron saint that one chooses to emulate does not have to be a part of a sacrament and can simply be a dear friend who you have a special connection with and can learn from. In fact why limit yourself to just one patron saint?

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